LibraCancer
Sun & Moon · combination 76 of 144
Sun in Libra, Moon in Cancer
What stands out most in your character is a strong longing for harmony, together with a tendency to doubt yourself and a rich emotional life. You are charming and sweet, sensitive and romantic. Your creativity comes alive wherever beauty and the finer things are involved. You have refined taste and elegance, and you are drawn to everything graceful. Partnership means a great deal to you, and you can hardly imagine life on your own. You are sociable and can keep up a relaxed, friendly conversation on any subject. Keeping the peace matters to you at almost any cost.
You never feel ready for conflict and try to avoid it, believing that an uneasy peace is better than a good quarrel. You are willing to set your own opinion aside rather than stand in opposition to someone, though your view deserves to be heard as well. Tense relationships can bring strong swings of mood and a wish to withdraw and hide. You tend to keep your rich inner world away from curious eyes, afraid of being hurt, and letting a few trusted people see it can be a relief.
When you lead, you do it tactfully and keep good relations with those around you. Rudeness repels you, and you do your best to keep it out of your life. Decisions are hard for you, and you can spend a long time weighing the pros and cons. Your hesitation can last so long that the question resolves itself and life decides for you. Once you do decide, though, you act gently, with a fine sense of the right moment and of how others will respond. Fairness is very close to your heart, because for you justice is part of harmony. Your sense of fairness tends to show most in your own relationships and close circle, and the wider causes of the world move you less than the people right beside you.
You like to rest in comfort and harmony, ideally with the chance for easy, warm conversation.
You relax fully only in a cozy, familiar home atmosphere, surrounded by family and the people closest to you. Being near water also helps you unwind. You are deeply sensitive to everything that concerns your loved ones. You have a gift for sympathy and empathy, and you know how to soothe and comfort. You reach out to people in search of understanding and peace. Your emotions run deep. Sleep and good food are very important to you.
What you set out to do and what you need inside do not always pull in the same direction. At times you may lack energy, drive and self-confidence, and listening to both sides of yourself, then taking small steps, is part of your path.
In a man's chart, this combination gives moments of self-doubt and a strong wish for harmony and partnership, and it often draws him to a partner who is gentle, romantic and emotionally warm. In a woman's chart, it brings out the gentle, receptive side of her nature in a harmonious way, and she is often drawn to a partner who is diplomatic and charming.
The classic view
Your manner is inherently flattering without being subservient or obsequious, for you have a keen sense of your own dignity and importance.