CancerLibra

Sun & Moon · combination 43 of 144

Sun in Cancer, Moon in Libra

You are soft, delicate and calm, and you seek harmony, coziness and comfort. Family, home and the lives of the people close to you matter a great deal, and family values strongly shape your goals. Self-confidence, drive and assertiveness do not come easily, so you prefer to stay in the background, where nothing can hurt you or upset the delicate balance you live in. You do not like to have power over people. If circumstances require it, your influence works as soft pressure, built on your ability to sense and understand people well. Questions of partnership and how relationships grow concern you deeply.

You do your best to avoid conflicts and sharp corners, and you could be called a master of compromise. Your decisions are always careful and thought through from a practical point of view, aimed at avoiding surprises, and you always weigh the financial side, because material stability feels like security to you. You carry your decisions out with refinement and grace, and you know how to make concessions.

You tend toward anxiety and caution, and at times the future frightens you for no clear reason. All this leads you to keep reserves and put money aside for a rainy day. You are interested in your roots, your ancestors and the history of your family.

You like to rest among the people close to you, in a homely, cozy and calm atmosphere, ideally near the water. You relax in a harmonious atmosphere of kind and easy conversation with pleasant people, where you can show all your charm and peaceful nature. You give great importance to the beauty of your home, to colors that go well together and to a refined interior. It matters just as much to you to create and keep an atmosphere of love and harmony at home. The care and attention you give people are discreet and delicate. For all your compassion and sensitivity, you avoid getting too close to people, since you need some distance in relationships, and letting one or two people come nearer can be a gift to you both.

Your conscious wishes and your inner needs are not always in tune. At times you may lack drive, energy and self-confidence.

In a man's chart, this combination gives a love of home, care for loved ones, romance and thrift, and he tends to look for a partner who is sociable and seeks balance and true partnership. In a woman's chart, it gives a great love of harmony and art, and she feels at home with a partner who is emotional, gentle, sensitive and intuitive.

The classic view

You have a charm of manner that makes other people respond to you readily.

Grant Lewi, Heaven Knows What (1935)

Find your own Sun and Moon combination